To take a piggy-back ride off of what Josh was talking about the other day, I think the last few months have taught us a lot.
1) It is sometimes unbelievable how blessed we have been. We are both very hard workers and have worked very hard for the things we have achieved in our lives. However, I know there are people out there doing just as much as me, if not so much more who are not as fortunate as I am. I am thankful for the way my parents raised me and the gifts I have received because of that. I am thankful that someone was looking out for me when I realized what my true passions were, sending me to Concordia and then to graduate school at St. Thomas.
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| Graduation at Concordia |
2) Keeping up with the Joneses. This is something I have never really been into. I, sometimes fortunately and sometimes unfortunately, have always marched to the beat of my own drummer. Even with this history, I find myself sometimes being caught up with what my peers are doing. Many of my (our) friends are extremely successful. As I am headed into a service profession, monetary success will never be in my future. When I start to become jealous of friends living in and buying nice places, getting puppies, and having kids, I just remind myself of how much I love what I am doing and how much it will help our family down the road (tuition remission anyone?). This is a great reminder that no matter what plans you have for yourself, there is something much bigger creating the perfect path for you.
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| Cobbers at a wedding in December |
3) Lusting after material things. This is something I get caught up in because of the world we live in. When everyone around you has an iPad, iPhone, iThis, iThat, it's easy to think you need one too. In these moments, it helps to think about the times (even though they were extremely short) when we were struggling financially. Even though it was stressful, it was so reaffirming to know that I married someone who makes me happy even in those stressful times. We do not need things to keep us happy. I think people become so unhappy living this lifestyle, it is important to have something (or someone) to keep you grounded.
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| Jumping on the cake pop train |
4) Working together. Something I have learned over the last few months is that no one can do it on their own. We all need someone or something to help us get through tough times. I think everyone, especially our representatives in Washington, need to take a few minutes to remember this. We can't get things done or move forward without working together.
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| The Holiday card from our Grad staff this year |
p.s. I am going to Las Vegas at the beginning of March. The American College Personnel Association conference is having a joint conference with NIRSA (college and recreational sports organization). Some of my co-workers will also be going as this is a great opportunity to network and job search. Luckily they agreed to stay a few extra days, and we will be there over my birthday! First time in Vegas and I will be turning 24 while we are there!